I wanted to give this some time and try some things. I lowered the water level and added another stone and in about 3 days it started to come back strong. So the plant now grows bigger and it goes back to the old problem, so I put a 245 gal/p/m
pump in and had the hose splashing the roots big time. It worked over night! All of this tells me that it was a lack of oxygen. And yes Wal-Mart stones just do not work and the small air pump to small and he water level was to high. Did I spend to much just for this one plant? NO! I learned a great deal. And I think I will as my son was telling me to start looking a bit more into areoponitics.
Thank you so much for your help